The Most challenging 2 hours of my life

Just had a talk with Abby about our wedding plans. When I asked her comments about the pictures, she said its nice. But knowing her for all these years, I know there’s something wrong. When I asked her again, she said, “Ang dami kong iniisip ngayon, etc”. I was stomped with what she said and gave me a brush off statement that she was asked to go to the other building were her friends are inviting her for dinner. Of course, with sheer politeness, I just said go ahead. Then my 2 challenging hours commences. 

Maybe I was wrong about opening up the wedding plan since tonight, she was tired from work or maybe other things that she want to share with me, that is if she wants to share it with me. She’s a bit of a private person too. 

Maybe I’m too selfish because of not understanding her situation completely. She is deciding whether to finish her contract or extend it. About the wedding, if ever she opts to extend her contract, we will get married by June2012 but if not and wished to resign, then the wedding will be Nov2012. So its truly a complicated situation.

I should have at least support her still for whatever decision she will make. I just prayed to God before I made this blog. I prayed that he will mediate in our relationship. I prayed that through him, we will be united with our decisions and more importantly, His will be done.

I will be waiting till 1am Manila time(8pm Jeddah Time), to talk to her one more time. I don’t want to end this night in a bad note, same as hers.

Till here folks, good night.

Wends Yap

Fearless by wendsyap82

Fearless by wendsyap82

<d>riven within by the spirit 
verbally armed with meditated scriptures
uplifting a brother in sickness and suffering
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Isolation.com-Day 1

Good Evening folks. Been a while na nagpost ako ng blog. Anyway, moving forward, I think some people already knew my state now(facebook current status), yes its confirmed, I have bulutong a.k.a chickenpoxs.

I had a notion that we could only get chickenpoxs during our childhood days. But in my case, I’m 29 and i have it now.

Even if I have it now, I’m still thankful because its not denge, hence goodbye blood transfusion. Hello antibiotics and scar cream ftw.

I’m still thankful that God healed me. No fever for me kaninang umaga. I will pray to God that my mom and dad, pinsan ng kasambahay will not get infected and for my healing. :)

I would like to thank my friends for being concerned since Thursday till today. You never failed guys to note something down on facebook.

Abby, My love and angel, thank you for being my loving and lovely nurse even if your physically distant. Di bale pag uwi mo, babawi ako sayo. I promise you that and I will buy your favorite care bear collection. :)

For now, this is day one. Once again, thank you for reading.

wendsyap a.k.a lyrical arsonist

What if 3rd year Freedom(circa 1998) ruled the Student Council?

Its been a while that I haven’t posted a blog. Oh well, due to lazyness I guess, hehehe. Ok, back to business.

Yesterday, I went on a long walk from Informatics Northgate to ATC. In the middle of my walking fiasco, I tought about the Superman series like “What if Superman was Russian?”(not sure about the title of the Graphic Novel). Anyway, I thought about the glory days of 3rd year Freedom(circa 1998). My fellow classmates at that time had a plot about who to vote from president to SAA(Sergeant at arms). They planned that all boys in that section to vote me as President, Harold Refuerzo as VP, Mel Palogan as Secretary, Darwin Abaya as PRO, the rest I cannot remember. Unfortunately, the plan didn’t work. Yes, I became the president of that section and the rest of the positions where covered by the smart guys/gals of the section.

Kung Natuloy yung balak namin, things will change. Supposedly, eto yung platform ko sana kung natuloy yun:

1.) Magic the gathering tournament every friday (Like the FNM at ATC and r4)

2.) Club day every friday.

3.) Equality among offbeats and populars in the batch.

4.) Unbuttoned polos pag aattend ng student council

Siguro, every time may meeting sa student council, eto ang magiging scenario:

Head Advisor: Oh Mr. Yap, how are you? Congratulations on your victory.

Me: Thank you Mam, Its an honor to be in this position. Anyway mam, I would like you to meet the members of my cabinet.

Head Advisor: Sure Mr. Yap go ahead.

Cabinet enters the meeting room.

Me: Here are the members of my cabinet Mam.

Cabinet enters the room.

Me: Mr. Refuerzo, my VP.

Head Advisor: Mr. Refuerzo?!(in disbelief)

Me: Mr. Palogan, my secretary

Head Advisor: Mr. Palogan(Already shaking in more disbelief)

Me: And my PRO, Mr. Darwin Abaya

Head Advisor: fainted

Oh well, those were the days. We are already grown ups and dealing with other things in life. We may be notorious in the past, but now we are more serious in life. People change for a reason. :)

Till here, This is wends yap, signing off.

my top 10

Good morning. As scheduled, I will now share my top 10 memorable events in my life. For me, year 2010 was indeed a great year for me. Without further adieu, here we go:

1. Good results on mom’s ct scan, praise be to GOD!

2. Im currently studying at Informatics and working still with HSBC.

3. Wends/Abby March 20, 2010-a date to remember, after 12 years of friendship…..finally.

4. The Yap’s invasion of Bangkok, Thailand and finally…our house in Tagaytay was completed.

5. Frequent meetings with the members of the PAC and oyap’s barkada

6. November 26, 2010-3rd year anniversary with HSBC

7. Having a morning shift finally after 6 years of working in the industry.

8. Jessie went back here in Las Pinas, but only for a short period and my bday bash, 30 inches pizza, LAKAS!

9. Transfer from UK collections to Manila Care

10. Finally, Team Arie went on team building on march 2010 in Nasugbu, Batangas.

Legolandia Legacy 2000-2010

Hello members and affliliates, this is to commemorate the barkada’s unforgetable moments and events for the past 10 years at Legoland. Without further adieu, here we go.

1. Majority, to strive harder and better in life.

2. Ang iba, kasal na, want to start a family.

3. Ang iba, nagbabalak na magpakasal

4. Ang iba, may sarili nang pamilya.

5. Mga ibang ka tropa, nag out of the country na…….para magwork.

6. Meet and greet the Kings of Las Pinas.

7. Say “John” sa Legoland at ang karumal dumal na bday party ni oyap, 2005 at 2007.

8. Ang pinaka sick na charades na nalaro sa Legoland.

9. Inihaw na manok, naks upgrade na talaga.

10. Upgrade from pandecoco to Yellow Cab pizza, NYF.

11. Cutting classes tuwing friday ata or saturday nung college.

12. Ang mini tournament sa sf, SPORTS GAME! sabay bato ni jacob ng cd kay miong, hehehe.

13. Yearly parteey sa house ni Romeo, sa Cabico na that time.

14. Yearly parteey sa house ni Romeo, yung hindi pa sa cabico.

15. Torpe days ng ibang members ng PAC, except sa gumawa ng decade report na ito, hehehe.

16. Si charles, nung nagising kami, kakaibang sounds sa tv ang narinig namin.

17. Laro playstation 1 at dreamcast

18. Bili pandecoco, loaf bread, reno liver spread and coke 1.5 ltr.

19. Kain ng bbque kina Ate balat.

20. Tambay sa Legoland, wala pa kaming girlfriends at that time.(year 2000)

Revisiting Legoland: In Response

I’ve just read Mel’s blog about Legoland. Well, he’s right, no gf’s for us at that time. It’s like a brotherhood or fraternity to us once we entered the 4 corners of this place. We help each other, bum each other, slack off each other, play together.

Before we got ourselves employed, we’ve managed to save up a little to buy and store food in legoland so that once we come over, we don’t have to buy food anymore. 

Sa legoland, dito din nag a-assemble ang iba’t ibang barkadahan. One is the so called, Outsiders, PAC, Chitcharon and Paminta. The mainstay of Outsiders is, you know who I’m pertaining to, hehehehe. PAC, well as far as I know, its like a Chinese triad,namely Jeff, Zander and the guy who was responsible for the unity of the PAC and other affiliates, none other than Charles, hehehehe.

I remembered the time wherein Mel, Jacob and the rest of the peeps had a mini music session. It was the advent of J-Rock. We’ve been listening to the songs by Larc-En-Ciel almost everyday and tried to play their songs. My personal favorite was Caress Of Venus :)

Till here, to be continued :)

Revisiting Legoland

Its already been years na huli kaming nagpunta sa mahiwagang lugar na ito. Its due to several renovations that needs to be done asap. Oh i miss the days…….the glory days of legolandia…….where limitless fun and excitements awaits.

Hmm….my first visit of Legoland was in year 2000 during my freshman year at Perps. After my class ng saturday, diretcho sa lego. Ambag ambag ng tig Php20(we are around 5 I guess) tapos bili the ff:

1.) Tasty bread

2.) Isang lata ng Reno liver spread

3.) Php10 pande coco

4.) 2 packs ng lucky me pancit canton

5.) 1 1.5 liter Coke

Masaya na kami sa Php100 tapos laro pa kme PS1 games. If we have extra money, diretcho kay Ate Balat-spot namin ito

There are times that we even cut classes para makapunta lang sa lego. I don’t wanna mentions names, mga all star ito sa absenses, hehehehe.

The good thing about this place is the unity of the other batches. Yung mga offbeats nung batch namin, dto nagsama sama pati ang mga semi sikat. Yung mga hindi nagpapansinan dati, sa lego nlang sila naging close. :)  Dito rin nagsimula ang unang Street fighter alpha 3 mini tournament na kung saan naglaban si Jacob at si Romeo. Level 35 ang Ken ni Jacob, while romeo’s Guile was level 0. Jacob dominated round 1 but rounds 2 and 3, it was a wipeout by miong:sports game! Jacob said, huwag kanang babalik dto, sabay bato cd at controller, hehehehe!

This is only the prologue of this blog. Moe likely, Mel will continue this too. Till here. ciao 

Steady

Just woke up peeps. I feel a bit sad still. Its already been 2 days that I’m like this. Para daw akong isdang bilasa kahapon. Maybe its because time is getting shorter na rin when it comes to talking to Abby. She’s already working for 12 hours in a day. I need to accept the fact that its not the same anymore since of course she needs to rest and during her off she needs to have her own time. If there’s an opportunity that we could talk, that’s fine, but if not, there’s another day coming. :) 

Till here, ciao

wends